by YODELSHIPPINGCO16 App-Controlled Sex Toys for Couples in Long Distance Relationships
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At some point in your life, you may find yourself in a long-distance relationship. Living apart from your partner can be surprisingly fulfilling, but the distance can also pose a host of new challenges, including how to keep your sex life hot when physical touch isn’t on the table.
Texting each other sexy messages and photos is great. So is FaceTime sex. But there’s also an ever-growing category of app-controlled sex toys that your partner can control from anywhere in the world. (The category is known as teledildonics: a fancy word for long-distance sex toys.) Picture this: You’re video calling your loved one with a vibrating prostate massager in your butt, and your partner says, “I’m going to make you cum in three, two, one.” Then they turn up the knob on the app, the vibrations intensify, and you orgasm—while they’re watching it happen on their laptop. Not only might you feel more connected, but if you’re into power play, there’s a fun Dom/sub dynamic to explore with teledildonic toys.
Using a long-distance sex toy might not be the same as having sex with your partner in the same room, but hey, it’s something. Plus, you can always use these toys on your own, which means your masturbation game is going to level up, too. (And let’s face it: You might be jerking off a little more often than normal if your partner just moved to another city.)
If you’re in a long-distance relationship, you don’t have to wait for your next IRL visit to share a sexual experience with your partner. The 16 sex toys on this list are perfect for couples in LDRs. Enjoy!
The Best Long Distance Relationship Sex Toys:
Best Beginner Vibrating Butt Plug
Ditto Vibrating Butt Plug
We-Vibe’s We-Connect app makes their sex toys ideal for long-distance play. The Ditto is their 3-inch vibrating butt plug. Its slim shape, flexible neck, and un-intimidating size make it comfortable to wear and fun to explore with.
Best Advanced Vibrating Butt Plug
Hush Vibrating Butt Plug, 4 Inch
Lovense is the long distance sex toy manufacturer. All of their toys connect to an app, allowing you or your partner to control the toy from thousands of miles away. The Hush is their vibrating butt plug. We love it because it seems to have stronger vibrations than the majority of vibrating butt plugs currently on the market.
Best Love Egg
Lush 3 Love Egg Vibrator
Love eggs don’t get enough love! These knob-shaped vibrators are designed to sit inside the vagina and stimulate the whole clitoral network, including the G-spot, vaginal wall, and labia. This app-controlled love egg is great for long-distance play—and, as one reviewer on Lovehoney pointed out, has a nifty “alarm” setting: “It’s a comfortable toy so you’re able to wear it while out and about or while you’re sleeping,” they wrote. “The alarm setting makes for a good wake up call!”
Best Male Masturbator
Max 2 Male Masturbator
This app-controlled masturbation sleeve has unique vibrating and constricting abilities, so it’ll feel like your partner is giving you a handy from across the globe. For a truly futuristic experience, you can sync up your Max 2 with your partner’s Max, Max 2, or Nora device from Lovense and the two toys will respond to each other’s movements.
Best Sexy Accessory
Vagina Sleeve
If you really miss P-in-V penetration, Lovense also makes a vagina sleeve for the Max 2.
Best Rabbit Vibrator
Nora
This is Lovense’s Nora, an app-controlled rabbit vibrator that can sync to other Nora, Max, and Max 2 devices. Rabbit vibrators are designed to deliver internal and external stimulation simultaneously, with the longer arm providing G-spot love and the shorter arm hitting the external clitoris.
Best Panty Vibrator
Moxie Clitoral Panty Vibrator
Moxie is a wearable clitoral vibrator designed to fit discreetly into the user’s underwear. Hot. It stays in place with a magnetic clip and provides powerful-but-quiet vibrations.
Best Wearable Vibrator
Chorus
This hands-free, app-controlled vibrator for vulva-owners provides internal and external stimulation at the same time. You can control it via the We-Connect app, or—the next time you get to see each other in person—try keeping it in during P-in-V penetration. “I thought that maybe it might get in the way or make things uncomfortably tight [during penetration] but neither is the case,” one five-star reviewer wrote on Amazon. “In fact, I enjoy the feeling of a little extra pressure from having this in me at the same time as my partner. It does take a bit of adjusting to get the right fit but luckily it is highly adjustable.”
Best Clit-Sucking Vibrator
Melt
Clit-sucking vibrators, which use suction technology to simulate oral sex, are all the rage these days. This app-controlled version from We-Vibe happens to be waterproof, in case you or your partner wants to use it in the shower.
Best Prostate Massager
Vector
The Vector is an app-controlled prostate massager that stimulates the prostate internally and externally through the perineum. From Zachary Zane’s review of the Vector for Men’s Health: “It felt amazing, better than other prostate massagers because of the external perineum vibrations. Without applying pressure to your perineum, the Vector would have been fine, just like every other good prostate massager. But having both the internal and external pressure together compounded to create an intense full-body orgasm that you can’t get with just your run-of-the-mill vibrating butt plug. You need both to really shake things up.”
Best Vibrating Cock Ring
Mighty One
Cock rings can help you maintain longer, stronger erections by trapping blood in the shaft of your penis. This one from Satisfyer vibrates, too, and the Satisfyer app lets your partner control it from anywhere in the world. You can also connect the app to Spotify or Apple Music and have the vibrations sync with the beat of any song.
Best Customizable Vibrator
Nova 2
The problem with some rabbit vibrators is alignment; depending on the user’s anatomy, the internal and external arms may not line up to hit your sweet spots at the same time. That’s why we’re huge fans of the Nova 2, which has two adjustable arms so you can customize its shape to your heart’s content—plus, some super-powerful vibrations and app-controlled capabilities.
Best Date Night Activity
Date Night Kit
If one of you has a penis and the other has a vulva, this is the date night kit for you. You get the We-Vibe Nova and the We-Vibe Pivot—a vibrating cock ring—in one nifty package.
Get ready for power play…in more ways than one. This vibe is app-controlled, so one partner can control the other’s toy. It’s also a wand massager: a type of vibrator known for packing tons of power in that rounded head.
Most Unique Toy
Create Your Own Penis Molding Kit
Your long-distance partner may not have access to your actual penis, but they can have a replica. This DIY kit, available in various colors, lets you make a vibrating dildo in the exact shape of your peen. It’s a great unique gift idea!
Best for Masturbation
Egg Male Masturbators – 6 Pack
It isn’t always easy to schedule partnered sex sessions in a long-distance relationship, especially if you’re in different time zones. Thank heavens for masturbation! These squishy “eggs” fit over your penis to switch up the sensations when you jerk off.
Zachary Zane
Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based writer, speaker, and activist whose work focuses on lifestyle, sexuality, culture, and entertainment.
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